Force Suspended VM to Stop

[Robin Curtis]

After a MacOS upgrade, I am getting PRL_ERR_VM_UNABLE_ALLOC_MEM whenever I try to open my Suspended VMs. (one is Windows 7, one is Ubuntu 18).
I have tried to "Stop" these VMs - and get a message about losing data etc. - but it doesn't force the VMs to really shutdown. They just keep their Suspended status.
Is there a way to force them to shut down - not worried about "lost" data?
(I can't Activate them - to then Shut them down - because of the PRL_ERR_VM_UNABLE_ALLOC_MEM error. )
Any other hints ?
Thanks

 

[Aries@PF]

This seems to be relevant, but not 100% helpful considering Parallels didn't respond to it at all (in the thread at least).

 

[Robin Curtis]

This seems to be relevant, but not 100% helpful considering Parallels didn't respond to it at all (in the thread at least).

Thank you. Not making a lot of progress - but Parallels support are trying to be helpful. Pain !!