When I was having these problems back in May, there was a crossgrade deal, which made VMWare Fusion cost $10. It worked just fine with my Boot Camp XP partition. But, I didn't prefer the interface. I like the options and interface of Parallels better.
When Parallels came out with a new version, I tried it. It recognized my BB Storm right away. THEN, I upgraded my Missing Sync, and it broke that again. With the new MS running, you have to disable a background app, using Activity Monitor. Then, Parallels reads the BB just fine.
I haven't tried VMWare for this, because with all the zillions of attempts with different software, I can no longer authorize my XP online, and have to waste time calling India to reauthorize every time. I wonder if I can use MS v2.02 without the workaround with VMWare, or would that have interference from Missing Sync, also?
Anyone know?