fixed by using gcc-12. gcc-11 was the ubuntu default compiler.. so
ln -sf /usr/bin/gcc-12 /usr/bin/gcc
after that the tools installed fine...
Sat Jan 13 11:51:37 EST 2024
Start installation or upgrade of Guest Tools
warning: the compiler differs from the one used to build the kernel
The kernel was built by: aarch64-linux-gnu-gcc-12 (Ubuntu 12.3.0-1ubuntu1~22.04) 12.3.0
You are using: cc (Ubuntu 12.3.0-1ubuntu1~22.04) 12.3.0
Skipping BTF generation for /usr/lib/parallels-tools/kmods/prl_tg/Toolgate/Guest/Linux/prl_tg/prl_tg.ko due to unavailability of vmlinux
warning: the compiler differs from the one used to build the kernel
The kernel was built by: aarch64-linux-gnu-gcc-12 (Ubuntu 12.3.0-1ubuntu1~22.04) 12.3.0
You are using: cc (Ubuntu 12.3.0-1ubuntu1~22.04) 12.3.0
Skipping BTF generation for /usr/lib/parallels-tools/kmods/prl_fs/SharedFolders/Guest/Linux/prl_fs/prl_fs.ko due to unavailability of vmlinux
warning: the compiler differs from the one used to build the kernel
The kernel was built by: aarch64-linux-gnu-gcc-12 (Ubuntu 12.3.0-1ubuntu1~22.04) 12.3.0
You are using: cc (Ubuntu 12.3.0-1ubuntu1~22.04) 12.3.0
Skipping BTF generation for /usr/lib/parallels-tools/kmods/prl_notifier/Installation/lnx/prl_notifier/prl_notifier.ko due to unavailability of vmlinux
warning: the compiler differs from the one used to build the kernel
The kernel was built by: aarch64-linux-gnu-gcc-12 (Ubuntu 12.3.0-1ubuntu1~22.04) 12.3.0
You are using: cc (Ubuntu 12.3.0-1ubuntu1~22.04) 12.3.0
Skipping BTF generation for /usr/lib/parallels-tools/kmods/prl_fs_freeze/Snapshot/Guest/Linux/prl_freeze/prl_fs_freeze.ko due to unavailability of vmlinux
Start installation of prl_tg kernel module
Start installation of prl_fs kernel module
Start installation of prl_fs_freeze kernel module
Start installation of prl_notifier kernel module
DKMS modules were added successfully
DKMS modules for kernel 6.5.0-14-generic were built successfully
DKMS modules for kernel 6.5.0-14-generic were installed successfully
Parallels Guest Tools were installed successfully!
Please, reboot your OS to finish installation of Parallels Guest Tools.
2024-01-13T11:51:58-0500: execCmd: ./install --install [0]
2024-01-13T11:52:03-0500: Guest OS is going to reboot.
ln -sf /usr/bin/gcc-12 /usr/bin/gcc
after that the tools installed fine...
Sat Jan 13 11:51:37 EST 2024
Start installation or upgrade of Guest Tools
warning: the compiler differs from the one used to build the kernel
The kernel was built by: aarch64-linux-gnu-gcc-12 (Ubuntu 12.3.0-1ubuntu1~22.04) 12.3.0
You are using: cc (Ubuntu 12.3.0-1ubuntu1~22.04) 12.3.0
Skipping BTF generation for /usr/lib/parallels-tools/kmods/prl_tg/Toolgate/Guest/Linux/prl_tg/prl_tg.ko due to unavailability of vmlinux
warning: the compiler differs from the one used to build the kernel
The kernel was built by: aarch64-linux-gnu-gcc-12 (Ubuntu 12.3.0-1ubuntu1~22.04) 12.3.0
You are using: cc (Ubuntu 12.3.0-1ubuntu1~22.04) 12.3.0
Skipping BTF generation for /usr/lib/parallels-tools/kmods/prl_fs/SharedFolders/Guest/Linux/prl_fs/prl_fs.ko due to unavailability of vmlinux
warning: the compiler differs from the one used to build the kernel
The kernel was built by: aarch64-linux-gnu-gcc-12 (Ubuntu 12.3.0-1ubuntu1~22.04) 12.3.0
You are using: cc (Ubuntu 12.3.0-1ubuntu1~22.04) 12.3.0
Skipping BTF generation for /usr/lib/parallels-tools/kmods/prl_notifier/Installation/lnx/prl_notifier/prl_notifier.ko due to unavailability of vmlinux
warning: the compiler differs from the one used to build the kernel
The kernel was built by: aarch64-linux-gnu-gcc-12 (Ubuntu 12.3.0-1ubuntu1~22.04) 12.3.0
You are using: cc (Ubuntu 12.3.0-1ubuntu1~22.04) 12.3.0
Skipping BTF generation for /usr/lib/parallels-tools/kmods/prl_fs_freeze/Snapshot/Guest/Linux/prl_freeze/prl_fs_freeze.ko due to unavailability of vmlinux
Start installation of prl_tg kernel module
Start installation of prl_fs kernel module
Start installation of prl_fs_freeze kernel module
Start installation of prl_notifier kernel module
DKMS modules were added successfully
DKMS modules for kernel 6.5.0-14-generic were built successfully
DKMS modules for kernel 6.5.0-14-generic were installed successfully
Parallels Guest Tools were installed successfully!
Please, reboot your OS to finish installation of Parallels Guest Tools.
2024-01-13T11:51:58-0500: execCmd: ./install --install [0]
2024-01-13T11:52:03-0500: Guest OS is going to reboot.