I am certain I have no other VMs or VM files.
This may sound strange, but I finally got out of the auto start and auto shutdown loop. With parallels running and my VM running (like I had a choice), I utilized the main menu to open a new VM. I left it blank (no OS or devices - and parallels scolded me for it) and stopped it. I then went back to my Win XP VM and stopped it. Since the blank VM was still there, parallels did not close. So I could edit the configuration using the GUI. Funny thing was, all the settings were already set to NOT auto start or shut down. So I turned them back on and then back off again, and, after deleting my paperweight of a VM, I closed parallels.
Now comes the freaky part -
After some trial and error, I found that opening Win XP from the desktop icon (Mac desktop) created by parallels at install kept me in the "auto everything loop", BUT opening from the program itself ran the config as it should. I have no idea why this was the case, but it was repeatable numerous times. The icon pointed directly to the .pvs file, so I am clueless as to the difference. I deleted the desktop icon and just kept the link to the app on my dock and no more problems.
The only kwerky thing now is I either have to disconnect/reconnect my printer (accomplished by powering off and on) to be recognized in parallels or manually connect. No big deal, but the autoconnect is not perfected, as it is set to autoconnect.
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