3186 Freezes, Doesn't boot windows, Bogs all other mac apps after waking from sleep

Ok looks like 3186 only fails on me if I've had my notebook on sleep (lid closed). When I open it back up in the morning, opening parallels will slow down my entire computer to the point where I have to hold the power button down, shut it off, and bring it back up

What information can i provide to get help with this?

MBP Core Duo, 1.83gHz, OS X 10.4.8, 2gb RAM

Anything else? I'd really like to resolve this

 

Anyone? Hello?