* 2 GB for XP is a good idea considering you have 8 GB total
* 82 ºC is nothing to worry about, at all, it's not dangerous or damaging even for prolonged times, these CPUs can run fine at 100 ºC. Also they have mechanisms built-in to them to shut them down if they reach a temperature that might cause damage.
* As for the 100% CPU usage can be for a lot of reasons, I suggest that you reinstall Parallels Tools to start with, secondly you'll need to identify what process is taking so much CPU in the Task Manager, most likely it's Windows Update (wuauclt.exe) doing its thing, it goes back to normal once is over.
* When we use the word memory we are referring to RAM (your 8 GB), we don't use that word for (virtual or real) disk space (your 160 or 60 GB), using 'memory' to refer to disk space may cause confusion (might be unclear if you are referring to RAM but got the numbers wrong, or referring to disk space but using the term memory, in your case I assume 60 are the virtual disk space as the macbook can't have 60 GB of RAM).
Last edited: Dec 31, 2013