You can see "Shared Networking" or "Bridged Networking" in the VM Configuration->Hardware dialog, as the properties of the network adapter of your VM (not the Parallels Ethernet Adapter of your guest OS). But this doesn't matter because you can access the server from the address bar.
I guess, you currently have mounted the share to your Mac, and Parallels Desktop made available the share to your guest OS as \\.psf\sharename mapped to a drive letter. Your database client accesses your database, using the drive letter. Is this right? You typed \\yourserver\sharename into the address bar, and the share was available this way.
If right, please, unmount the share from your Mac. The drive letter will automatically disappear from Windows Explorer inside your guest OS. Then, map the share to a drive letter manually:
1. Open Windows Explorer and go to the Tools->Map Network Drive menu.
2. In the dialog opened, type \\yourserver\share into "Folder" field, and click "Finish"
3. Use the new drive letter to access the database.
If I'm not right, please, describe the situation more clearly, and/or send us a problem report (using Help->Report a problem dialog of PD, when the virtual machine is running and in focus), and post it's number here.
Last edited: Nov 18, 2009