Did you install Parallels Tools? In the WinXP Device Manager under Display Adapters it should say "Parallels Video Driver".
If you had searched the forum before posting in nearly unintelligible text message speak, you would have found that your question has been asked and answered many times. If you had read the manual, you would have known about Parallels tools. If you do your homework, you don't waste the time of the volunteers on the forum. To save us all the trouble of reading yet another garbled post, the answers to your questions are no and no.